For reasons best known to you, you are unlucky when it comes to love. Most parents will think only of finding a suitable partner for their children but not many parents groom their children into an individual who is able to make their own decisions as and when they feel it is right to do so. That is where the failure lies.
I want you to accept the fact that you are capable of achieving the right partner who is devoted to you and fulfill all your expectations. You have to put in a lot of effort into becoming a brave, strong and independent person who is able to achieve the best that life has to offer. So, do not waste time flirting with those you think are the right person for you. Rather, focus single-mindedly on finding the person who likes and accepts you for who you are.
Remember that whoever becomes your spouse or lover is due to destiny and accept it with equanimity. Your dreams might have been shattered by cruel strokes of fate, but be gracious and happy with what you have. Before starting your marital life or even falling in love, talk and pour your heart out and do not fight against your destiny. Share with your partner about your dreams that you have nurtured all your life.
At the same time, you also have to patiently listen to your partner and try to understand the emotions that are flowing through her or him. Always pay attention to what your prospective partner may have in their mind and always be honest. You can be gracious or apologize if things do not work out the best with your partner.
Make her or him understand that you are not able to change the past but you can strive to give a better future. Promise that you will live life together and not to neglect your duties and you will fulfill all her or his desire to the best of your abilities.
With your sincerity, words and efforts you are able to make your partner feel respected. You have to honor her or him without any binds or sacrifices. Be devoted, honorable and keep your promises. You should try to balance your thoughtlessness by honoring the dream your partner seeks for. Do not regret marrying and falling in love and hope to make your partner the happiest person in the whole world.
This is how you triumph to the greatness of your love and live a long future with your partner. Do not let any act of momentary pleasure ruin what you have with your partner and I am telling this with no offence towards anyone, especially not to you.